Saturday, April 18, 2009

WEDDING

A WEDDING INFLUENCES

a wedding day and a special ceremony that occurs for a moment would be special and memorable for a couple as well as the whole family.
A wedding date has been decided for a long time before a couple a young man and woman commit one another to enter a marital life time. Of course before a wedding day, they have passed the engagement moment. Those days, even those months, between the engagement and the wedding moment have been a relative long time for those two people and the family to consider everything towards the special day. During those day and those months, each of the couple has to reflect intensively whether they will pass through seriously to the D-day of a wedding ceremony.
This frame of love should be the ideal one, of course. Nowadays, we see that the vow to be faithful to each other does not last long as it should be. So a young couple has to accomplish themselves with so many social and psychological aspects to build the marriage the everlasting one.They have to prepare themselves seriously before they hand in hand pass along the isle on the wedding day. The wedding ceremony is the portal to go through a happy marriage that builds a happy family.
The main condition for success in passing the wedding moment is the capability to understand one another. The sound mutual understanding will be the stonehenge of loving and caring for his / her life partner. So the loving memory of a wedding day will be boredom and soon forgotten if the stonehenge being pushed and kicked to broken pieces. The following days will be the forgotten ones. How about the consequences of a broken marriage to a broken family? What kind of pain will burden the members of the family? the father, the mother and mostly the children? Where does the loving scent of love that flared on the bright wedding day go?

4 comments:

  1. kmu pasti nulis postingan ini karna udah ngebet mau merit ya? hehehe :p
    but nice posting.. ;)

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  2. wah2 pastinya iya..hehe thanks ya don

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